Jesus was not a super-hero. Jesus was a man. Jesus was also Emmanuel, God with us. Jesus is the god-man. Philippians 2 describes how he did not cling to his divinity, but limited himself in humanity. He then grew and learned and had real choices. Jesus was more like us in every way except sin. His way of dealing with life is totally human. It is not ‘other’ than ours. It is the way things should be.
For it was fitting that he, for whom and by whom all things exist, in bringing many sons to glory, should make the founder of their salvation perfect through suffering. (Hebrews 2:10)
Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, (Hebrews 2:14)
Therefore he had to be made like his brothers in every respect, so that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in the service of God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people. For because he himself has suffered when tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.
Although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered.